Rev. James M. Daprile, Jr. Ph.D.

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July 2004

July 4, 2004

THE VIEW FROM THE SANCTUARY was wonderful last Sunday morning at the 9:45 am Mass: the church was nearly full, full-throated voices were raised in praise and the mood was joyful.  Many, if not most, parishioners noted the new change in Mass time without a lot of hassle and because of the merged schedule the seating arrangements was a little scrambled.  From my perspective, it was gratifying to see us on Sunday assembled as one community, as one parish family. 

 

A SUMMER THOUGHT   There are many reasons for the failure to comprehend Christ’s teaching...but the chief cause which has engendered all these misconceptions is this: that Christ’s teaching is considered to be such as can be accepted, or not accepted, without changing one’s life.  Leo Tolstoy

 

MUSINGS   Over the past five years, our parish averaged 57 funerals per year.  As I review the names about a third were active, contributing and communing members, a third were very elderly (and often confined to their homes or nursing facilities) and a third were inactive members.  This means that we have 100 or more fewer members in our pews and active in our ministries than we did at the beginning of the new millennium!  This loss is not compensated by either new registrations or baptisms.  Can any initial conclusions be drawn?  Like the Youngstown 2010 initiative has shown about the city, we have to accept the fact that St. Brendan Parish is smaller and declining in population.  Secondly and positively, we have a graced opportunity to be evangelizers, sharers of the Good News of Jesus, proclaimers of the love of God.  Have you thought about inviting the new family in your neighborhood to come to St. Brendan’s (even if they are Hispanic or African-American)?  Have you offered an invitation to an inactive Catholic to seek reconciliation and renew his/her sacramental like in Christ?  Are you a faithful steward of God’s blessings at home, on the job, in the community and at the parish?  I’m just thinking out loud. 

 

FESTIVAL REPORT   At the festival meeting this past week, those in attendance took time to assess our annual event.  Among the strengths were: well-run and smooth operation, improvement in the kitchen, security better (esp. US Marshals en masse and in vests), good to see other people and catch up on friendships and some new pre-festival set up help.  Some areas of concern were: festival image, a few booths shut down early for lack of volunteers, need better midway lighting, poor ride selection, location of port-a-potties and parking concerns.  The cost of the fireworks display was raised.  A serious review of the profitability and need of the Wednesday ride-a-rama was examined.  Our efforts this year raised $39,306.00.  Many, many thanks to the festival committee and all the dedicated volunteers.  Thanks for a successful festival.

 

4TH OF JULY REFLECTION from Benjamin Franklin: “When you are good to others, you are best to yourself.”

 

With the blessings of St. Brendan, 

May the wind be in our sails 

Peace -

Fr. Daprile

For More Information Contact:
Rev. James M. Daprile, Ph.D.
Saint Brendan Parish 

2800 Oakwood Avenue

Youngstown, Ohio 44509

Tel: 330-792-3875
FAX: 330-792-9080
Internet: 
pastor@stbrendanyo.org

 

 

July 11, 2004

A SUMMER THOUGHT   Being is more important than doing, the heart is more important than the mind, and doing things together is more important than doing things alone.  Henri J. M. Nouwen

PARISH PASTORAL COUNCIL is pondering the proposal that all our facilities become smoke free.  There are a number of considerations prompting our discussion.  First, it is well documented that smoking is hazardous to one’s health (it’s printed on every cigarette package).  Second, second-hand smoke is equally threatening to the health and well-being of others in the vicinity and is often bothersome to others around.  Third, we teach in our school that smoking does not promote healthy living and we condone the practice.  We need to become consistent with our policies and our practices.  Fourth, we need to be more environmentally friendly.  Fifth, cleaning up the butts and mess created by smokers is an unnecessary burden to the maintenance of our facilities.  If you have any comments about this proposal contact me, a member of the executive committee (Melissa Wells, Barb Carissimo, Rosie Marich) or any member of the Parish Pastoral Council.

PARISH WEB SITE   Have you noticed that our parish web site is taking on a new look?  It’s still under construction but you might want to check out our progress so far.  Many thanks to Fran Warino for her amazing skills to be able to sort through all the programming hurdles.  www.stbrendanyo.org

AND WHILE YOU ARE CONNECTED The Florida State University, Tallahassee , Florida has put up a very interesting Java applet on their site. It begins as a view of the Milky Way Galaxy viewed from a distance of 10 million light years and then zooms into towards Earth in powers often of distance: 10 million, to one million, to 100,000 light years and so on until it finally reaches a large oak tree leaf. But that is not all. It zooms into the leaf until it reaches the level of the quarks viewed at 100 altimeters.  Enjoy and give thanks to the Creator!! http://micro.magnet.fsu.edu/primer/java/scienceopticsu/powersof10/index.html

SOME CHRISTIAN ONE-LINERS

+  Many folks want to serve God, but only as advisers.

+  People are funny, they want the front of the bus, the

    middle of the road and the back of the church.

+  Quit griping about your church; if it was perfect, you

    couldn't belong.

+  Don't wait for 6 strong men to take you to church.

+  God loves everyone, but probably prefers "fruits of the

    spirit" over "religious nuts!"

+  The best mathematical equation I have ever seen:

    1 cross + 3 nails = 4 given.

+  Prayer: Don't give God instructions -- just report for duty!

+  God grades on the cross, not the curve.

With the blessings of St. Brendan, 

May the wind be in our sails 

Peace -

Fr. Daprile

 

July 18, 2004

WE EXCEEDED OUR GOAL for the 2004 Bishop’s Appeal.  St. Brendan parishioners pledged $27,915.00 (which is 106% of our goal of $26,236.11) for this campaign.  262 donors responded (which is 24% of our households) and 66% of the pledges have been fulfilled.  Thank you very much for your generosity for church and charity. 

SOMETIMES WE ARE SLOW LEARNERS   Lou Takacs gave me an article from the June 18, 1972 Youngstown Vindicator which warned that the parochial school system may face “complete collapse because of dwindling finances and spiraling deficits.”  The national, blue-ribbon panel noted that Catholic school costs are rising three times as fast as revenues, whipped along by declining enrollment, decreasing availability of teaching nuns [!!] and falling student-teacher ratios.  Thirty-two years later our parish and school knows this reality all too well and have tried to address the issues of costs, tuition, services, endowments, etc.  As long as we remain “parochial”, that is narrow and with self-interest, in our school vision and operations we will face constant crisis.  But if we develop a “catholic” perspective, that is wide and embracing, we can learn new strategies and systems to share, develop and consolidate.  As a Catholic Youngstown community we value Catholic secondary education as we collectively sponsor Ursuline and Cardinal Mooney high schools.  I have always wondered why we have resisted the same principles for primary Catholic education.  We know the sad history of parishes which have closed schools because they have “gone it alone” (read parochial).  I hope and pray we have the imagination to dream new possibilities and the courage to remain firm in our commitment to Catholic education.

A SUMMER PARABLE: The Butterfly   One day as a small opening appeared on a cocoon, a man sat for several hours watching the butterfly struggle to force its body through that little hole. Then it seemed to stop making any progress. It appeared as if it had gotten as far as it could and it could go no further.  So the man decided to help the butterfly. He took a pair of scissors and snipped off the remaining bit of the cocoon. The butterfly then emerged easily, but it had a swollen body and small, shriveled wings.  The wings would enlarge and expand to be able to support the body, which would contract in time.  Neither happened.  In fact, the butterfly spent the rest of its life crawling around with a swollen body and shriveled wings.  It never was able to fly.  What the man, in his kindness and haste, did not understand was that the restricting cocoon and the struggle required for the butterfly to get through the tiny opening was nature's way of forcing fluid from the body of the butterfly into its wings.  Then the butterfly would be ready for flight once it achieved its freedom from the cocoon.  Sometimes struggles are exactly what we need in our life.  If we were allowed to go through our life without any obstacles, it would cripple us.  We would not be as strong as what we could be.  We could never fly.

With the blessings of St. Brendan, 

May the wind be in our sails 

Peace -

Fr. Daprile

 

July 25, 2004

IT SEEMS LIKE CHRISTMAS EVERY SUNDAY   That was one of the comments about our summer Sunday Mass experience.  The church is full, our voices are raised in joyful thanksgiving and the parish community is one.  Alleluia.

MORE GOOD NEWS   Because of the wonderful response to the 2003 Bishop’s Appeal, the parish has received $6,780.00 in rebated funds.  All money received over the parish goal is returned to the parish.  Again, thank you very much for your kind and overwhelming response.

THANKS to Joe and Linda Vivacqua who sponsored the altar servers’ trip to Jacob’s Field in June.  It was a wonderful evening.

ALTAR FLOWERS last weekend were courtesy of Vickie Luther and arranged by Barb Dunlap.

NEW PARISH POLICY   Upon recommendation of the Parish Pastoral Council, all our facilities will be smoke-free environments (except for candles and incense!) beginning August 15.  This change will most directly affect our Saturday night Bingo games and users of Maxwell Hall.  I appreciate the cooperation of everyone.

VACATION BIBLE SCHOOL (Construction, INC—in the Name of Christ) was a smashing success.  Thanks to the teen construction team of Anthony Bowell, Tricia Day, Taylor Dugan and Laurie Warino.  The adult crew consisted of Mary Capogreco, Linda Dugan, Muriel Galias, Geri Jacquet, *Janette Koewacich, *Marjo Lendak and Barb Perry. (*construction supervisors).  Through scripture and stories, the children learned how God created/constructed the world and engages us in the continual building up of the kingdom:

“God is the builder of everything.”  Hebrews 3:4

“God has made me; the breath of God gives me life.”  Job 33:4

“God has raised this Jesus to life.”  Acts 2:32

“Jesus loved me and gave Himself for me.”  Galatians 2:20

Their “tool belts” were made up of a cross, a “remodeled” heart, Scripture verses, daily prayers and the faith to do good.  It was a wonderful experience.  Thanks everyone.

TIME REALLY FLIES   This past weeks marked the fourth anniversary of my appointment as pastor of St. Brendan’s.  My heart is filled with gratitude and joy to be able to minister here with so many faith-filled and generous parishioners. 

SUMMER WISDOM   The most beautiful thing we can experience is the mysterious. It is the source of all true art and science. He to whom this emotion is a stranger, who can no longer pause to wonder and stand rapt in awe, is as good as dead: his eyes are closed.   Albert Einstein

With the blessings of St. Brendan, 

May the wind be in our sails 

Peace -

Fr. Daprile

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August 2004

August 1

WELCOME to WELCOME to Joan Lawson as our new Director of Faith Formation and Religious Education.  We are delighted that Joan is now ministering in our parish community.  

WELCOME ALSO to Sr. Julia Baluch, OSU as a volunteer hospital visitor for our parish.  Sr. Julia has spent the last 11 years at Immaculate Conception Parish in Ravenna and this summer has moved back to Youngstown.  Over the many years of ministry, she has been an elementary school teacher, principal, director of religious education and pastoral associate.  In her generosity, sister offered her ministerial services to both St. Patrick and St. Brendan.  We are happy to have her on board.  Sr. Julia will visit the area hospitals on Wednesdays, Judy Lazar will visit on Fridays and I will visit on Tuesdays and upon request.

THIS REMINDS ME OF A SIGN that I once saw in a hair salon: I’m a beautician not a magician.  We can only deal with the real stuff before us.  Every now and again, someone will complain that they were not visited by me or by someone from the parish during their hospital stay.  Because of new federal privacy laws and because of shorter hospital stays and transfers to other care sites, it is more difficult to make pastoral visits.  Unless the rectory is informed of your hospital stay, the parish staff cannot plan on making a pastoral visit. 

THE BLUE HYDRANGEAS that graced the sanctuary last week were from the garden of Mrs. Catherine Palumbo .  The blooms were huge!  Thank you.

VOICES   Over the last few weeks you may have heard some new voices answering the rectory phone.  To cover vacations and workshops, several women have volunteered their time to keep the rectory office functioning.  I’m grateful to Mary Alyce Kinnick, Mary Morley, Rita Flora and Gerry Miller who so graciously gave of their time to keep the rectory operations smooth and consistent.  Thank you.

MOBILE DISPLAY BOARDS   Thanks to Ralph Perry for making two display boards for posters, signs and information.  Our entry/exit spaces are so crowded and sign space very limited.  I hope this helps to locate and share important announcements.  Thanks, Ralph, for the great craftsmanship.

SOME QUESTIONS God won’t ask:

+ God won't ask the square footage of your house, He'll ask how many people you welcomed into your home.

+ God won't ask how many friends you had, He'll ask how many people to whom you were a friend.

+ God won't ask what your job title was, He'll ask if you performed your job to the best of your ability.

With the blessings of St. Brendan, 

May the wind be in our sails 

Peace -

Fr. Daprile

August 8

THERE WAS GOOD REPRESENTATION of St. Brendan parishioners at the recent Youngstown 2010 neighborhood meeting.  In fact, of the some 50 folks participating at Chaney, there were at least 31 parishioners attending the meeting.  Among the issues raised were enforcing the housing codes, aggressive drug surveillance, enforcing the speed limits on Oakwood and Connecticut (even a proposal to make them two-way streets again), enhancing playgrounds, discussion of development of the property around West Elementary when it vacates the area and citizen involvement and participation.  It was a tightly run and focused meeting.  I hope we can continue to be not only a concerned voice but also responsible and responsive neighbors and citizens.

MEETING FOOTNOTE   The newspaper report of the 2010 meeting cited me saying I wanted more enforced speeding in the neighborhoods.  As I recall my remark, it was to not to promote Oakwood as a drag-strip but to enforce the speed limit in our neighborhood

SANCTUARY FLOWERS  last week were cut from the garden of Mary West .  Did you notice the several varieties of black-eyed susans?  Thanks Mary.

SUMMERTIME REFLECTION:  First the Shock, Then the Glow: In everything worth having, even in every pleasure, there is a point of pain or tedium that must be survived, so that the pleasure may revive and endure.  The joy of battle comes after the first fear of death; the joy of reading Virgil comes after the bore of learning him; the glow of the sea-bather comes after the icy shock of the sea bath; and the success of the marriage comes after the failure of the honeymoon. - G. K. Chesterton

A SUMMER PARABLE:  Whispers:  

The man whispered, "God, speak to me" and a meadowlark sang.  But, the man did not hear.  

So the man yelled, "God, speak to me" and the thunder rolled across the sky.  But, the man did not listen.  

The man looked around and said, "God let me see you."  And a star shined brightly.   But the man did not see.  

And, the man shouted, "God show me a miracle."  And, a life was born.  But, the man did not notice.  

So, the man cried out in despair, 

"Touch me God, and let me know you are here." Whereupon, God reached down and touched the man. But, the man brushed the butterfly away . . . and walked on.

With the blessings of St. Brendan, 

May the wind be in our sails 

Peace -

Fr. Daprile

 

August 15

SUMMER HARVEST AND MARY’S ASSUMPTION    This time of year we celebrate summer’s harvest: grapes and sweet corn and apples and tomatoes and basil and thyme and juicy watermelon.  Catholics came to mark this time of the earth’s bounty with the feast of the harvesting home of Mary.  The feast is sometimes called the Assumption and sometimes called the Dormition or the “falling asleep” of the Mother of God.  Mary, it has seemed to Christians, is the best harvest the earth has to offer, the saint we always call by name in our Eucharistic prayers.  Whether we dwell on concrete or wide-open fields, the fruit of the earth and the work of human hands is what wait we await and savor.  Mother Mary, Mother Earth.  One reflects the other.  There’s a bond there that is expressed in a prayer for Assumption Day:

 

God, harvest of mercy, our hearts exult in you.

In the abundance of this August,

We see the mothering of Mary.

Let us know her in fragrant herbs, in grains and grasses, in fruit trees and vines, in all that grows wild and all that is cultivated.

The eyes of all who hunger look to you

And at this table you provide.

Open now our hands to share your abundance

Until the day when hunger and thirst are no more.

 

YOU MAY VERY WELL BE RIGHT!” In a timely opinion column written by Bob Zyskowski, associate publisher and general manager of The Catholic Spirit, the St. Paul and Minneapolis archdiocesan newspaper, he writes that more and more letters coming to Catholic publications lately, “questioning our Catholicity, as well as our intelligence, and mental health––or all three.”  Some in the news business, Zyskowski continues, have come up a form letter response to such issues, especially when there is a disagreement with a published point of view. The form letter thanks the writer for writing, and one long-time Catholic columnist simply notes, “You may very well be right!”  He states, “It seems to be a trend in our culture to pick a side and to support that position no matter how much sense the alternative answer makes or what evidence to the contrary comes along.  Worse.  the trend is to attack and belittle voices with a perspective we don’t share.” Zyskowski points out that we must listen to all sides. “When we don’t listen, we don’t grow ... If we only talk with those who think as we do, what can we learn?” he asks. “In the church too, hearing and reading the opinions of others––including those with whom we disagree–– makes Catholics reflect on why we believe what we believe.”  He concludes by stating “each one of us will know we are on the right path, though, when we say to someone who disagrees with us, ‘You may very well be right.’”

 

With the blessings of St. Brendan, 

May the wind be in our sails 

Peace -

Fr. Daprile

 

August 22, 2004

CHURCH CLASSIFIEDS

Parish Pastoral Council Secretary:  Responsibilities: attend monthly PPC meetings, take and publish minutes of the proceedings and create a monthly bulletin report.  Call the rectory for details.

Chair of PPC Social Concerns Committee:  Responsibilities: a member of PPC whose task is to vision and plan for St. Brendan Parish; and chair of a committee of dedicated parishioners whose purpose is to raise awareness around the issues of moral concern, justice and peace in our church and community.   Call Melissa Wells or Fr. Daprile for more information.

Wood Restorer: Do you have the skills to lightly sand and varnish (refinish) a large cross that is discolored due to sun damage?  Call Fr. Daprile to volunteer.

INTERESTING TID-BITS   I garnered these factoids from Kenneth Jones’ Index of Leading Catholic Indicators. 

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Priestless parishes.  About 1% of U.S. parishes, 549, were without a resident priest in 1965.  In 2002 there were 2,928 parishes, about 15% of the U.S. parishes.  By 2020, a quarter of all parishes, 4,656, will have no priest.  Presently in the City of Youngstown, there are two parishes without resident priests.  In the next four years, half of the active pastors in the city will reach the mandatory retirement age of 75.

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Religious Orders. The religious orders will soon be virtually non-existent in the United States.  For example, in 1965 there were 5,277 Jesuit priests and 3,559 seminarians; in 2000 there were 3,172 priests and 38 seminarians.  There were 2,534 OFM Franciscan priests and 2,251 seminarians in 1965; in 2000 there were 1,492 priests and 60 seminarians.  There were 2,434 Christian Brothers in 1965 and 912 seminarians; in 2000 there were 959 Brothers and 7 seminarians.  There were 1,148 Redemptorist priests in 1965 and 1,128 seminarians; in 2000 there were 359 priests and 24 seminarians.  Every major religious order in the U.S. mirrors these statistics.

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Sacramental Life.  In 1965 there were 1.3 million infant baptisms; in 2002 there were 1 million.  (In the same period the number of U.S. Catholics rose from 45 million to 65 million.)  In 1965 there were 126,000 adult baptisms—converts—in 2002 there were 80,000.  In 1965 there were 352,000 Catholic marriages, in 2002 there were 256,000.  In 1965 there were 338 annulments, in 2002 there were 50,000.

The future bodes uncertain, unless we exercise our baptismal responsibilities and remain committed and faithful to building up the body of Christ on earth.  What’s missing in the following word:  C H   C H?  U  R.  Did you consider calling about the above classifieds?

With the blessings of St. Brendan, 

May the wind be in our sails 

Peace -

Fr. Daprile

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September 2004

September 5, 2004

 

IT WAS WITH SADNESS that I had to reject the new registration of the Tate family who wanted to become parishioners.  There was Dick Tate, who wanted to run everything.  Ro Tate tried to change everything.  Agi Tate tried to stir up trouble whenever possible and Irri Tate who was more than willing to lend a hand.  Hesi Tate and Vegi Tate poured cold water on any new idea or suggestion.  Imi Tate wanted to mimic everyone and Devas Tate loved to be destructive.  There were some redeeming cousins, however, Facili Tate, Cogi Tate and Medi Tate who tried to save the day and get everyone pulling together, but Poten Tate wanted to be the big shot.

 

This corny story reminds us that a one person show doesn’t go very far.  Rather, we are members of the body of Christ, who are by God’s design one in Christ and dependent on one another.  We need one another.  We are family.

 

LOOSE CHANGE

I know that there are people in this world who do not love their fellow man, and I hate people like that!  -Tom Lehner

I was going to buy a copy of “The Power of Positive Thinking” and then thought: What good would that do?  -Ronnie Shakes

 

The trouble with being punctual is that nobody’s there to appreciate it.  –Franklin P. Jones

 

I told the doctor I broke my leg in two places.  He told me to quit going to those places.  –Henny Youngman

 

Red meat is not bad for you.  Now, blue-green meat, that’s really bad for you.  –Tommy Smothers

 

I stopped believing in Santa Claus when my mother took me to see him in a department store, and he asked for my autograph.  –Shirley Temple

 

Always remember this: If you don’t attend the funeral of your friends, they will certainly not attend yours.  -H.L. Menchen

 

Remember that as a teenager you are in the last stage of your life in which you will be happy to hear that the phone is for you.  –Fran Lebowitz

 

A good novel tells the truth about its hero; but a bad novel tells the truth about its author.  –G.K. Chesterton

With the blessings of St. Brendan, 

May the wind be in our sails 

Peace -

Fr. Daprile

 

September 12, 2004

SIGNS OF THE TIMES   I hope you have noticed the new signs at the various entrances to the church and school.  St. Brendan Parish facilities are now smoke free environments.  New cigarette butt containers have been placed outside the doors of Maxwell Hall.  One of the major concerns of Parish Pastoral Council in making this decision was the effect a smoke free environment would have on Bingo—a major fundraiser.  The Saturday night crowd has changed but much to our surprise there has been about a 5% increase in players. 

 

The other sign reflects a position we must take as a result of Ohio ’s recent concealed gun ordinances.  We must state that we prohibit concealed guns and/or any other weapons in order to protect ourselves and prosecute any violators.  It seems to me that our Ohio legislators made a seriously wrong law and some forceful lobbyists have jeopardized the security of children throughout the state.

 

VACATION AND BULLETINS   I always appreciate scanning bulletins from your travels.  It helps me keep a finger on the pulse of parish life throughout the country.  While I was on vacation in Florida I noticed that one of the advertisers on St. Brendan’s bulletin also advertised on the San Marco bulletin—same name and design but different phone numbers!  I was also encouraged by the liturgy that I participated in.  The congregation sang well, ministers served with competence and there was a hospitable spirit.  However I was a little disappointed that communion was only offered in one species, rather than fully participating in the Body and Blood of the Lord.

 

A final vacation footnote: In the local paper’s section entitled “Spiritual Briefs” there was a notice informing the Jewish community of the upcoming Yom Kippur and Rosh Hashana services: tickets were available for $100 per holiday for non-members!  This made me start thinking about Christmas Eve!

 

SANCTUARY IMPROVEMENTS   As you read this you will have noticed the construction of a reardos (a free standing wall) defining the sanctuary.  This is in preparation for the celebration of our 80th anniversary on November 21, 2004.  The reardos is marked by a negative arch (an inverted shaped modeled after the Good Shepherd window on the north wall) and may be described as the shape of the hull of a boat moving through the waters (like St. Brendan, our navigator patron).  The organ speakers will be covered and the entire area will be painted a slightly lighter green.  Through the slit in the reardos the tabernacle will be seen as it occupies a new Blessed Sacrament Chapel (a place for private prayer and adoration).  The eucharistic medallion will be moved into this area.  A new 13 foot crucifix has been commissioned—a gift from the Altar and Rosary Society.  All these improvements are being made through the generosity of memorials and private gifts given to the parish.  Enjoy the work in progress!

With the blessings of St. Brendan, 

May the wind be in our sails 

Peace -

Fr. Daprile

 

September 19, 2004

WHERE ARE JESUS’ ARMS?  As our students and teachers returned to school they were puzzled by the statue of Jesus that had just a body and no arms!  For a long time, I have wanted to hang the statue of the Risen Jesus (that once was positioned on the north wall of the church under the God Shepherd window) in the school.  Finally, I decided to hang the statue in the main stairwell of the new school building where it will command attention and respect.  I instructed Steve and Randy, our maintenance persons, what to do.  They hung the body on my day off but neither they nor the principal could find the arms.  This gave Mrs. Paula Ekis, our principal, an idea:  this year we need to be the arms and feet and mission of Jesus.  This is our theme, our prayer and our activities.  Each classroom has decorated the area near the door with ways that they will accomplish this.  How can you make the Risen Christ come to life in your arena of the world?  Maybe this prayer by St. Theresa of Avila will inspire you:

 

Christ has no body now but yours.

No hands, no feet on earth but yours.

Yours are the eyes through which He looks

Compassion on this world!

Yours are the feet with which He walks to do good.

Yours are the hands with which He

Blesses all the world.

Yours are the hands.

Yours are the feet.

Yours are the eyes.

You are His Body.

 

By the way, the arms of Jesus were stored in the priests’ sacristy and have been recovered.  We will completely reassemble the statue on All Saints Day (November 1) as we commemorate all those in our faith tradition who have used their entire lives to embrace the Lord, the Gospel and their neighbor in love.

 

THANKS to Ralph Perry who responded to my classified ad to sand and varnished a large crucifix.  This has been hung in the stairwell of the old school building and can be seen from the outside parking lot.  Thanks Ralph for your generous service.

 

IT’S NOT ALWAYS WHAT YOU THINK: A priest and a pastor from two local churches are standing by the side of the road, pounding a sign into the ground. The sign reads: The End is Near! Turn Yourself Around Now!  Before It's Too Late!  As a car speeds past them, the driver yells, "Leave us alone, you religious nuts!"  From the curve they hear screeching tires and a big splash. The pastor turns to the priest and asks, "Do you think the sign should just say 'Bridge Out'?”

 

SANCTUARY IMPROVEMENTS   As you read this you will have noticed the construction of a reardos (a free standing wall) defining the sanctuary.  This is in preparation for the celebration of our 80th anniversary on November 21, 2004.  The reardos is marked by a negative arch (an inverted shaped modeled after the Good Shepherd window on the north wall) and may be described as the shape of the hull of a boat moving through the waters (like St. Brendan, our navigator patron).  The organ speakers will be covered and the entire area will be painted a slightly lighter green.  Through the slit in the reardos the tabernacle will be seen as it occupies a new Blessed Sacrament Chapel (a place for private prayer and adoration).  The Eucharistic medallion will be moved into this area.  A new 13 foot crucifix has been commissioned—a gift from the Altar and Rosary Society.  All these improvements are being made through the generosity of memorials and private gifts given to the parish.  Enjoy the work in progress!

With the blessings of St. Brendan, 

May the wind be in our sails 

Peace -

Fr. Daprile

 

September 26 ,2004

I WAS HUNGRY, AND YOU FED ME.  These words of Jesus, as recorded by St. Matthew, always challenge us to reach out to the poor, to alleviate their plight and to transform our community by the Lord’s active love and justice.  Last week a number of parishioners volunteered at the St. Vincent de Paul Soup Kitchen and got their hands into the gritty work of the Gospel.  Blessings go out to Don Scherl, Jerry and Amy Kernan, Lou & Jeri Miller, Sonny & Judy Lazar, Fred & Mary Capogreco, Jim & Melva Minnie, Mary Ann Peters, Muriel Galias, Annie Snyder, Angie Phillipone, Betty Fowler, Mary Katchmer, Teri Laret, Kitty Novotny, Marie Gedra, Ellen Pachel, Anna Marie Donnally, Sue Pasquale, Dorothy Sammartino, Janette Koewacich and Barb Perry.  By your actions may the Good News of Jesus be known and spread.

 

TODAY’S SACRIFICE … TOMORROW’S CHURCH, the Diocese of Youngstown’s Capital Campaign, has begun and our parish leadership team is being headed up by Barb Carissimo (chair) and Rosie Marich and Melissa Wells (co-chairs).  Both the needs of the diocese and our parish are addressed by this campaign.  Our Parish Pastoral Council created the following “wish list” if we are successful:  finishing the front church doors project, replacing the cracking steps and adding a handicap entry; a significant amount of funds allotted for school operations (salaries, tuition assistance, maintenance); create some adult centered space, renovate Maxwell Hall and restrooms and install a mini-kitchen; establish a senior citizen “help” ministry; youth ministry funding; and physical plant assessment.  Your ideas and comments will also be solicited at the parish meetings held in the rectory.  I hope you have responded to Bishop Tobin’s and my invitation to become informed about our needs and to become partners with us.  If you haven’t sent back your response card, call the rectory and secure a date.

 

BEFORE I BECAME A HURRICANE IVAN EVACUEE I was attending the International Catholic Stewardship Conference with Tom & Tina Fitzwilliams in New Orleans .  Even though the conference was curtailed, the message of stewardship prevails.  Here are a few gems that I gleaned from the conference:

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Stewardship is about being a grateful disciple and returning to God through the church in a proportionate, planned and generous manner.

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We have become accustomed to “giving to a need,” but stewardship is learning the “need to be giving.”

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Mother Theresa of Calcutta often described America as a land of blessings but filled with people who suffer from a “poverty of the heart.”  While we ordinarily have more than enough, we are isolated, alienated, looking for meaning and anxious.  We must embrace the mind of Christ and have a conversion of heart so that we may be open to the “sneaky grace” of God.

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First fruits are a biblical and catholic way to describe our gifts to God.  To God we are to give the best we have and to offer the choicest treasures and talents of our lives.    Tithing is associated with an impersonal percentage of giving or pledging, a mathematical calculation to the overflowing goodness of God.  Instead, we are to bring our first fruits to the altar as a grateful and disciplined response to the graciousness of God.

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 Why does money have such a bad reputation?  Why do we recoil when the topic of money is brought up?  Maybe we are embarrassed by the topic or hesitant to discuss our financial accountability because we use our money so poorly!!

 

A FINAL THOUGHT from Antoine de St. Exupery’s The Little Prince, “The only really important time in our lives is the time we waste with those we love.” 

 

With the blessings of St. Brendan, 

May the wind be in our sails 

Peace -

Fr. Daprile

 

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October 3, 2004

BISHOP MORNEUA IS FOND OF SAYING, “the main thing is to know the main thing and to keep the main thing the main thing.”  This snappy sentence is about relationships and priorities.  As baptized members of the Catholic Church, the main thing is our relationship with our Triune God and keeping our Loving God first in our lives.  This main thing gets demonstrated by a life directed by a mission or purpose and the priorities and relationships we create and keep.  I once attended a 7 Habits of Highly Effective People workshop which stressed the same point (quoting the poet Goethe): things that matter most should never be at the mercy of things that matter least.”  Sometimes we get so caught up in the whirlwinds of our lives (crises, interruptions, trivial or escape activities) that we squander our energies.  Recognizing that we are stewards, abundantly blessed and gifted disciples, is a constant way of conversion to keep our vision clear and our efforts deliberate.

 

FRANCIS OF ASSISI (1181-1226) was a poor little man who astounded and inspired the Church by taking the Gospel literally—not in a narrow fundamentalist sense, but by actually following all that Jesus said and did, joyfully, without limit and without a mite of self-importance.  While Francis is easily associated with animals, poverty, and ecological-justice concerns, he can also be recognized for his courage and faith.  Consider this citation from the author Tom Robbins: “You risked your life, but what else have you ever risked?  Have you ever risked disapproval?  Have you ever risked economic security?  Have you ever risked a belief?  I see nothing particularly courageous in risking one’s life.  So you lose it, you go to your hero’s heaven and everything is milk and honey ‘til the end of time.  Right?  You get your reward and suffer no earthly consequences. That’s not courage.  Real courage is risking something you have to keep on living with, real courage is risking something that might force you to rethink your thoughts and suffer change and stretch consciousness.  Real courage is risking one’s clichés.”  As we remember Francis, can we imitate his courage?

FROM A CHILD’S PERSPECTIVE:  There was a woman driving with her three young children one warm summer evening when a woman in the convertible ahead of them stood up and waved. She was stark naked! As the woman was reeling from the shock, she heard her 5-year-old shout from the back seat, "Mom! That lady isn't wearing a seat belt!”  What/how are you looking at life?

With the blessings of St. Brendan, 

May the wind be in our sails 

Peace -

Fr. Daprile

 

October 10, 2004

“CHRIST PRESENT IN THE EUCHARISTIC SPECIES is a treasure the Church has come to cherish and revere over the centuries.  The reservation of the Eucharist was originally intended for the communion of the sick, for those unable to attend the Sunday celebration, and as Viaticum for the dying.  As the appreciation of Christ’s presence in the eucharistic species became more developed, Christians desired through prayer to show reverence for Christ’s continuing presence in their midst.”  So beings the instruction on “The Reservation of the Eucharist” in the U.S. Bishops Guidelines entitled Built of Living Stones (2000).  Additionally, the Code of Canon Law directs that the Eucharist be reserved in a part of the church that is “distinguished, conspicuous, beautifully decorated, and suitable for prayer” (938). 

 

The recent creation of the reardos in the sanctuary now provides us with a chapel for our Eucharistic Reservation here at St. Brendan’s.  Through the “slit” in the wall the tabernacle is both visible and inviting.  The twin, amber colored, continuously burning sanctuary candles remind us that this chapel is dedicated to and honors Christ’s presence in this sacramental mode.  New handrails have been installed for easier access into and out of this chapel area.  Several pews have placed in the chapel with lights above for prayer, spiritual reading, silence or adoration.  The eucharisitc medallion has been repainted and repositioned. 

 

The Second Vatican Council expresses my hope for this chapel:  As the baptized grow to understand their active participation in the Eucharist, they will be drawn to spend more time in quiet prayer before the Blessed Sacrament reserved in the tabernacle, and be impelled to live out their relationship in active charity.  In reverent prayer before the reserved Eucharist, the faithful give praise and thanksgiving to Christ for the priceless gift of redemption and for the spiritual food that sustains them in their daily lives.  Here the faithful learn to appreciate their right and responsibility to join the offering of their lives to the perfect sacrifice of Christ during the Mass and are led to a greater recognition of Christ in themselves and in others, especially in the poor and needy. 

 

THANK YOU   I am grateful for the recent gift of $4,000.00 given to the St. Brendan Memorial Fund in memory of Ruth Scherl and given by her husband Don.  Both Ruth and Don have been long time and very committed members of the parish.  Don continues to serve the parish by his weekly volunteering in the Bingo backroom, his work with the St. Vincent de Paul Society, his ushering at the 10:45 Mass and his kindness in opening/closing the church building when I am away.  And I offer another Thank You to an anonymous donor of $1,000.00 to the Memorial Fund in thanksgiving for the many gifts bestowed upon her.  Thank you and may God continue to bless you abundantly.

 

TODAY’S SACRIFICE . . . TOMORROW’S CHURCH diocesan capital campaign receptions continue at the rectory.  Please accept Bishop Tobin’s and my invitation to gather and listen to our appeal.  The last receptions are on Monday, October 11 at 1:00 PM and 7:00 PM.  I am always impressed when our parishioners gather together.  There is so much good will, devotion and creative energy.  The bishop asks that every member of our diocesan family respond.  And we are reminded that every person/family make the same size sacrifice not necessarily the same size gift.

With the blessings of St. Brendan, 

May the wind be in our sails 

Peace -

Fr. Daprile

 

October 17, 2004

WE COUNT MEMBERS BECAUSE MEMBERS COUNT.  This sentence appears every week in our Stewardship section.  How do we get these numbers?  The ushers take a count at every Mass from the balcony.  We also count members by their sacramental practices and experiences.  Each year I must report these numbers to the diocese as one measure of the “state of the parish.”  This year (2003 figures) I submitted the following data:

Baptisms                    14

First Communions       23

Confirmations             19

Marriages                    6

Deaths                      67

I thought it might be helpful to look at into the parish’s history and see where we where 25 years ago (1979):

Baptisms                   67

First Communions      66

Confirmations             71

Marriages                  36

Deaths                      55

And 50 years ago (1954), the parish boasted these statistics:

Baptisms                    248

First Communions       106

Confirmations                1

Marriages                    50

Deaths                        24

WHOSE RESPONSIBILITY IS IT?  The imprisoned poet then president Vaclav Havel penned these challenging words, “There is such an enormous gap between our words and deeds!  Everyone talks about freedom, democracy, justice, human rights, and peace; but at the same time, everyone, more or less, consciously or unconsciously, serves those values and ideals only to the extent necessary to defend and serve his own interests, and those of his group or his state.  Who should break this vicious circle?  Responsibility cannot be preached: it can only be borne, and the only possible place to begin is with oneself.”

WEBSITE   Are you aware that the parish and school host websites?  Check it out at www.stbrendanyo.org and www.stbrendan.net.  This could be a good way to keep yourself and extended family and friends connected to the activities and life of our parish. 

With the blessings of St. Brendan, 

May the wind be in our sails 

Peace -

Fr. Daprile

 

October 24, 2004

ONE OF THE HALLMARKS OF OUR PARISH is the generous service provided by parishioners.  I am very grateful to the members of the Family Life Committee, chaired by Patty Infante, who so willingly and graciously were the “kitchen folk” for our seven parish rectory receptions for the diocesan capital campaign Today’s Sacrifice…Tomorrow’s Church.  Thanks go out to Grace Logan, Rita Flora, Debbie Brown, Gerry Miller, Amy Kernan, John Coudriet, Fran Mihalik, Barb Dunlap, Mike Infante and Joanne Schulick.  Thanks also to Mike Infante for the pitzellis, to Rita Flora for the lemon drops and to Rosie Marich for the strudel.  The meetings were both informative and yummy. 

WHO ARE THE CAMALDOLESE?  Several people asked me about the hermitage where I spent my retreat.  Here’s some information from their website (www.contemplation.com):   Camaldolese Benedictine monks trace their heritage to the 6th century monastic traditions of St. Benedict, as further defined in the 11th century by their founder, St. Romuald.  The three elements of the Camaldolese charism are:

·        solitude for personal prayer and meditation,

·        sharing in group prayer and work of the monastery, and

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     promoting development of contemplative spirituality in the outside world.

Founded in 1027, the Hermitage at Camaldoli , Italy serves as the motherhouse of the Order. Today, Camaldolese monasteries are found on the continents of Asia, Africa, and North & South America in addition to Europe .

In 1958, the Camaldolese established New Camaldoli Hermitage in Big Sur , CA .   Today some thirty monks and hermits live, work and pray together on an 800 acre site.  The monks' labors include a residential retreat ministry, bakery, bookstore, writing, and original art, pottery and music.

Many of the monks were called to monastic life as a second career. Former lay careers of community members include college and high school teaching, performing arts, engineering, clinical psychology, chemistry, construction and the United States Armed Services.

FROM A 16TH MONK:

No heaven can come to us unless our hearts
find rest in today. Take heaven! 

No peace lies in the future which is not hidden
in this present instant. Take peace!

With the blessings of St. Brendan, 

May the wind be in our sails 

Peace -

Fr. Daprile

 

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November 7, 2004

RETREAT RUMINATIONS   “Silence is golden,” was one of the directives that I was given as I entered the monastery cell where I resided for my retreat at the Camalodese Hermitage in Big Sur.   But silence is really noisy.  As the days wore on and the ringing of phones and the busyness of rectory life became more distant, I could hear the flapping of the wings of birds, the tip-toeing of deer in the forest, the crashing of huge waves on the shore rocks, the varied buzz of weird insects and the rhythm of my heart in prayer. 

In the silence the Spirit of Jesus can come again as we profess in our Creed, as the Lord and Giver of Life.  Anthony Gittins’ 2002 book, A Call to Radical Discipleship, was one of my retreat guides.  Fr. Gittins writes, “Because we organize and control, because we decide and make plans, we may not have time to order our lives as if God’s Spirit rather than our own intuitions and determinations were leading us.  Here are five signs that seem to make those who really believe in the Spirit of God.  They may be worth a little reflection.  Such people

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Actually go looking for trouble, for troubled people, as Jesus did;

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Pray to become aware, to be disturbed, lest they fail to hear and respond to the cries of the needy and the structures of sin;

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Are united though diverse, so that the world may believe (John 17:21);

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Are convinced they can help change the world—or that they will be found guilty if they fail to do so;

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Live exciting and worthwhile lives.”

During retreat I was reminded of Viktor Frank who was a prisoner of Auschwitz .  While still in the death camp he wondered whether he would survive.  He concluded that unless he could attribute some meaning to the present predicament and to the appalling suffering of those around him, even if he were to survive his life would be unbearably prolonged and ultimately useless.  Life without meaning is no life at all.  Frankly offered, as a life’s guide, the prognosis that if we can discover a meaning amid life’s vicissitudes, even a painful existence can be bearable and productive.  His legacy can be summarized in three neat aphorisms of his own:

To live you must choose;

To love you must encounter;

To grow you must suffer.

That is the wisdom of the biblical tradition that we, as people baptized in the dangerous memory of Jesus and inflamed with the Spirit, are heirs to. 

Retreats are not comforting escapes but renewals of the spirit in the Spirit of silence and sacrifice.

With the blessings of St. Brendan, 

May the wind be in our sails 

Peace -

Fr. Daprile

 

November 14, 2004

HEARTS AND  LOTS OF HEART.  While on vacation in San Francisco , I was hard to ignore the hundred of hearts that dotted the cityscape.  The city did a “heart of the city” project similar to Youngstown ’s penguin parade this past summer.&nbs